Hey - I guess you get to talk to me vs. the wife on this (we have different thoughts on the rear suspension parts).
I was having a discussion with one of the RRT guys - his thoughts were to get the OEM Rubber offset ones (very little known parts - they are in the parts catalog - if you need part numbers, I can look them up). His concept was the compliance in those bushings were a good thing - I will try to find the thread on Bimmerforums. We currently have the KMac offset urethane ones installed - they seem to not suffer from the adjustment issues other seem to have with the same part. But - if I were to do it again, I would probably go rubber, or with AKG all the way back (engine, tranny, diff and rear arms). I like keeping all the material the same on the first 3 parts, as they all move (to some degree) together. Better put - don’t’ have 12 year old rubber engine mounts and delrin tranny and diff mounts.