the Shoe wrote:
[quote]This thread scares the heck out of me. If we lived in your neighborhood we would move tomorrow. No I am not kidding. This is not funny.
You had a gun pointed at your neighbor. What if there was a banging noise as the garage door opened? What if the light hit your eyes funny? There is no excuse, you could have been telling this story in court. You still may.
You caused this situation, and somehow, it sounds like you are looking for sympathy from fellow racers.
I understand their have been robberies in your town.
I humbly suggest you:
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Delete this post
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do everything in your power to assure your neighbors nothing like this will ever happen again. They may say no problem to your face, but they will be scared as hell of you, until you prove it was a major judgement error, and will not happen again. And they will be telling alot of people. The people’s opinions you need to worry about are not us guys on this forum, its your neighbors and their neighbors and close friends. Get busy you have a lot of work to do.
PS a kid in a neighboring town was shot and killed by his father in a situation almost identical to the one you describe, yes there was crime in their town too.
I know I am giving advise you may not like, but I give it with concern and care in my heart. You opened this up, close it up carefully. I wish you well.[/quote]
You and I come from different worlds. We should probably agree to disagree.
This wasn’t an appeal for sympathy. It was one more mildly amusing Scott-the-dumbass story where I annoyed the neighbors. The fact that whoever banged on the door didn’t identify themselves when I answered, and I responded cautiously is just a side-note.
Someone bangs on your door in the middle of the night and fails to identify themselves at your house, you open the door for them.
Someone bangs on my door in the middle of the night and fails to identify themselves, I arm myself.
You do it your way and I’ll do it my way.
I certainly never intended for this thread to become some kind of 2nd amendment lightning rod.
Re. the father who shot the son. Tragedies happen. But the statistics show that lawful weapon owners almost never cause problems. Freak accidents happen and the media loves to play them up. But freak accidents are not a reason to lobby for a widespread change of behavior. Lawfully owned weapons protect people. They are your friend. No good will come from discouraging folks from taking reasonable precautions. “Reasonable” being in the eye of the beholder, of course. It’s the bad guys with firearms should create anxiety.
Those neighbors were over at our house for our traditional combined family thanksgiving. At the end of which, we were all laughing about the incident, well, everyone else was laughing and I was reiterating apologies…and she asked if that was a real “gun” that I pointed at her. So I asked her about something else in order to change the subject.
To the amusement of all.